The Venue at Birchwood

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Questions and Answers!

Are children invited to the wedding?

We adore your children, but due to space and planning considerations, we are unable to invite children to our wedding. Thank you so much for understanding.

Can I bring a guest/date?

If you received a plus one, you will have the option of a guest on your RSVP on the website. Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding an intimate event with family and close friends.

Is there parking on site?

Yes there is concrete parking on site! However if you are planning on consuming alcohol, we suggest carpooling or taking an uber/lyft.

Are there any colors guests should avoid wearing?

Our bridal party will be wearing light pink, so please refrain from wearing light pink, or a similar color, as we wish for our bridal party to stand out. In addition to this, please do not wear white, ivory, cream, or a similar shade.

Can I take photos at the ceremony?

We are having an unplugged ceremony (no phones or cameras) The greatest gift you can give us is to be fully present as we say "I do." We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us. However, feel free to take as many pictures and videos as you'd like, after the ceremony.

Psalms 126:3

"Yes, the Lord has done great things for us; and we are filled with joy."

Our Wedding

Cade and Trissity knew they were meant to be from the very start. Their story began in downtown Nashville, sparked by Cade’s unwavering confidence as he tried—more than once—to get Trissity’s phone number. She initially turned him down, determined not to meet someone in a bar, but God clearly had other plans. When they reconnected later, everything fell into place, and they fell for each other instantly.Together, Cade and Trissity love spending time at the lake, discovering new restaurants, binging new TV shows, traveling to new places, and enjoying the occasional karaoke night. If you see one of them, chances are the other isn’t far behind—they start missing each other the moment they’re apart.Their relationship is beautifully guided by the Lord, and they’re committed to keeping Him at the center of their lives and their love, always.

Cade & Trissity's Story

Isaiah 41:20 

"So that all may see and know, may consider and understand together that the hand of the Lord has done this."

Our Story

1 John 4:19

"We love because He first loved us."

Photos

Meet Tressley - the brides middle sister and the glue that holds the girls together! She's studying Nursing at Indiana University Fort Wayne and is always ready to lend a helping hand (or deliver a punchline). She is the funniest person you'll ever meet! 

Tressley Parkin 

Meet Trinity - The brides youngest sister and the ultimate life of the party! When she's not spiking volleyballs at Dominican University in New York City, she's keeping everyone laughing and dancing. There's never a dull moment when Trinity's around! 

Trinity Parkin

Meet Kaylee - The bride's college bestie and your go to girl for good hair and good vibes! She owns her own salon and has a heart as big as her talent. Always there to lift you up, Kaylee is the kind of friend every girl needs in her corner. 

Kaylee Jones 

Meet Grace - Grace is the kind of friend who makes life brighter just by being in it. With a heart full of faith and a love for laughter, she's the one who can lift your spirit with both a prayer and a girls' night in. Her warmth, style, and joy make her truly one of a kind. 

Grace Walter 

Meet Conner - the grooms younger brother and best man. Conner is currently studying Construction Management at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln, and he's the guy you can always count on. Whether you need a hand, a hype man, or someone to keep the day running smoothly. He's loyal to his core and always shows up for the people he loves, no questions asked. 

Conner Jochum

Meet Daniel — one of the groom’s closest friends. Now a Nashville local, but from Australia. Recently married to his wife, Rena, he works in sales within the food production industry and tackles his career with the same energy and optimism he brings to life.
An adventurer at heart, Daniel loves exploring new places, and is always seeking his next great journey. Though selective with the friends he chooses, once you're in Daniel’s circle, you can count on him to be there for you.

Daniel Černi 

Meet Austin - the grooms cousin and the family's go-to fixer. He's a talented electrical mechanical engineer at Kawasaki in Lincoln, Nebraska, and can solve any problem faster than most people can google it. Austin is steady, reliable, and always the guy who answers the phone - no matter the time. 

Austin Jochum 

Meet Thomas - the groom's cousin and the guy who brings the energy everywhere he goes. Thomas works as a paint technician at Right Look Automotive in St. Paul, Nebraska, but his true specialty is getting people out on the dance floor. He's the one who walks into a room and instantly makes it more fun, full of joy, jokes, and just the right amount of chaos in the best way. 

Thomas Jochum 

Meet Cole - one of the groom's younger brothers and the quiet charmer of the crew. He's a student at Westside High in Omaha and a host at Shucks Seafood Restaurant. Cole may be more reserved, but he has a huge heart and a way of quietly taking care of the people around him. And as an added bonus, Cole is something of a cologne aficionado, ensuring he is always impeccably—and impressively—scented.

Cole Nolte 

Meet Christian — the groom’s youngest brother and the energetic spark of the family. A student at Westside Middle School, Christian stays busy with a full lineup of sports, including football, baseball, and basketball. A fierce competitor by nature, he brings determination and intensity to everything he does.
When he’s not on a field or court, you’ll likely find him surrounded by friends — and rarely sitting still for long.

Christian Nolte 

Jack Spahn 

Tyson Guzman 

Andrew Steinhausen

1 Thessalonians 1:2

"We give thanks to God always for all of you, constantly mentioning you in our prayers."

Wedding Party

Meet the Parents of the Bride – Ryan and Tiffany Parkin.Ryan and Tiffany have been joyfully married for 27 years and have spent their lives building a home centered on faith, love, and intentional family values. They raised Trissity to have a strong foundation in Christ, always reminding her that “the most important decision you will ever make is giving your life to Christ, and choosing the person you marry.”Homeschooling their three daughters was a big decision, but one that shaped them into the strong, independent, Christ-centered women they are today. Ryan and Tiffany have always supported their girls wholeheartedly and couldn't be more excited for Cade and Trissity's marriage!

The Parents of the Bride 

Meet the parents of the groom - Diana and Clay. Diana and Clay lead an active and engaged lifestyle, staying involved in their community and supporting their sons in work, school, and many sporting activities. Throughout Cade’s life, they have been a consistent source of encouragement and support—whether in his academics, athletics, or his decision to pursue a less traditional path by moving to Nashville. Their unwavering guidance and love have played a meaningful role in shaping Cade into the person he is today.

The Parents of the Groom 

Meet the father of the groom - Kevin. Kevin has been a steady and devoted presence in Cade’s life, offering unconditional support through every chapter. From football sidelines to countless baseball games, Kevin is always there—showing up, cheering on, and guiding both Cade and his brother, Conner. Known for his quick wit and ability to brighten any moment, he brings energy and excitement wherever he goes. Over the years, Kevin has passed down countless lessons to Cade—from working on cars to sharing a few well-earned laughs over a cold beer.

John 3:16

"For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only son; that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life."

Meet the Parents 

What to Wear to a Semi-Formal Wedding

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Dress to impress! Kindly no denim or baseball caps. Dress pants, dress shoes, and button-ups encouraged for men, and long or midi summer dresses for women. Please refrain from wearing light pink as we want our bridal party to stand out! As well as white, ivory, cream, or anything similar.Here’s a pinterest board for some inspiration if you’d like to check it out! https://pin.it/2tcJMNQ65

Trissity & Cade

Trissity & Cade

Dress Code

SEMI-FORMAL

Ideas & Advice

Rent The Runway